Don’t Let Satan Steal Your Joy

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Don't Let Satan Steal Your Joy

As a new mother, I would sit and nurse my daughter with one hand and check Facebook and Pinterest with my other hand.  I was often searching for something to make me feel like a better mother (e.g., how to make my child sleep more, babies 1st Christmas outfits, etc.).  Through a random Pinterest search, I one day came across a quote about not letting Satan steal the joy of being a mother.  I cannot find the post now, but the message has stuck with me, almost 2 years later.

So often in our lives, we begin to doubt ourselves and let that doubt turn in to feelings of inadequacy and inferiority.  Depending upon where we are in our lives, the feelings can get worse and have very negative effects.

For me, the message resonated because that is exactly what I was doing.  Every time my daughter cried inconsolably (which was a lot because she had acid reflux), did not sleep, or screamed through Target, I felt embarrassed and ashamed.  Too often I forgot about the amazing blessing my daughter was and how lucky I was God had given her to me.  It made me feel like a bad mom.

That is what Satan does.  He steals our joy and makes us feel unworthy because, in those times, we are less likely to count our blessings or thank God for His gifts when we do not feel like we are enough.  We forget how much God loves us.  Satan does not just steal our joy in parenting, but I feel his negative influence:

Satan does not just steal our joy in parenting, but I feel his negative influence when:

  • I am negative toward a grad school class when I should instead be grateful that God has given me the opportunity to attend grad school,
  • I complain about the dishes and the laundry when I should thank God I have food and clothes to take care of my family,
  • I attempt to learn something new and it does not go well, so I feel embarrassed or give up when I instead should honor God in attempting to do my best in all I do.

The list could go on, but the message is the same.  I am blessed daily by the people in my life, the opportunities that come my way, and the amazing love God shows me when I have done nothing to deserve it.  I am far from perfect and I will, unfortunately, let Satan win again but from now on, I am going to focus more on the joy in my life and the amazing blessings God has given me.  I will not give Satan the satisfaction of turning my eyes from God or stealing my joy.

Note:  For me, changing my attitude and mindset toward the joy in my life has been made possible through a daily time of devotion every morning and an accountability partner.  My husband is amazing and we work together to help each other find joy.  This has not always been easy, but wanting to be good examples for our daughter has been great motivation.

If you do not have a daily devotion time or an accountability partner, I highly recommend it.  You will be amazed at the difference in your life.

The Talent Code – Daniel Coyle

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If you are looking for a great end of summer read, The Talent Code, by Daniel Coyle (affiliate link) is one of the best.  Coyle inspires all of us who have ever wished we were better at something or those amazing educators who are always looking for ways to help their students.

Book Review: The Talent Code:  Greatness Isn’t Born.  It’s Grown.  Here’s How. 

 

 An unknown basketball player named Michael Jordan seemed to become famous overnight.  After his coach cut him from his high school basketball team for lack of talent, he appeared to jump into his college career a star.  How did he become possibly the all-time greatest basketball player with such a rough start?  Was it grit, talent, or just luck?  According to Daniel Coyle, it was because Jordan had cracked “the talent code.”         

The Talent Code, an eloquently written book by Daniel Coyle, highlights the concept of talent including how, as the title of the book explains, “Greatness isn’t born.  It’s grown.”  Daniel Coyle is a New York Times bestselling author and a two time National Magazine Award finalist.  He has given many presentations on talent, specifically, finding ways to break “the talent code.” 

Advocating that many people are looking for ways to be the next Michael Jordan or Marie Curie of their field, Coyle explains the code for acquiring talent and works to dispel common stereotypes behind natural talent and practice.  By using humor combined with success stories from around the world, Coyle’s book engages the reader’s interest from the start.  Structured in a teaching manner, Coyle builds the reader’s knowledge from basic understanding regarding talent in the early chapters to revealing how the word “talent” is not as concrete as the reader may have originally thought. Furthermore, while there are a few people born with natural talent, most success stories are actually the result of what Coyle calls “deep practice” (p. 18), taking years of the right practice, attitude, and sacrifice to obtain.   

With a basis for his study focused around myelin, the film that wraps around neurons to make them stronger and longer lasting, Daniel Coyle visits many different “talent hotbeds” (p. 1) having produced incredibly talented people, looking for the secret to their success.  Each location held a few key features resulting in a byproduct focused around high accomplishments along with an increase in myelin.  By not only providing case studies to support the key features but also specifically listing elements within each feature, Coyle sets up the reader to apply what he teaches to their own lives. 

As an educator, it is often difficult to encourage and motivate students determined they aren’t capable of success.  Daniel Coyle’s book gives educators the vocabulary and examples they need to give their students confidence.  Student’s often have a hard time realizing their role models didn’t become great overnight, it took years of practice and desire to acquire their skills.   This occurs because people who excel often make it look easy and the struggles and tears accompanying success are not seen.  Coyle’s book will help students overcome their insecurities and realize they have the tools to discover their own talent.  Theory remains great, but practice backed by theory is better. 

The Talent Code is a well-organized book, easy to follow and read.  With thorough explanations and a clear format, the reader connects new information to information Coyle already presented in earlier chapters.  He thoroughly connects all the pieces together in order to see the big picture.  With repetition of the saying, “Skill is insulation that wraps neural circuits and grows according to certain signals,” the reader can see how it all fits together and applicability for their own lives (p. 117).  

With a positive tone and inspiring message, The Talent Code is highly recommended as a must read.  It will change the way the reader looks at strengths and weaknesses, increasing confidence and giving the tools to grow talent.  If you have ever tried to get better at something or have looked longingly at someone else wondering why you couldn’t do what they can do, the answer, as explained by Coyle, is anyone can be like them, they just have to break “the talent code,” finding a way to engage in deep practice and increase myelin.  Sounds easy right?  Not necessarily, but definitely attainable.   

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